I’ve Been Natural for 10 Years and I’m Ready for a Change!

Friday, June 28, 2019

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My 10-year hair anniversary is somewhere around the middle of July. I can’t believe I’ve been natural for this long. The journey has had its ups and downs, but throughout it all I’ve always learned to embrace and love my hair. But the last year and a half has been a struggle with hair care, and my overall beauty care, in general.

Being sick has stolen my energy. My usual weekend mani-pedis, monthly waxes, and 5-hour long wash days are just no longer an option for me. My self-care routine has turned into sleeping and making sure I take my medications. This has made me realized how bloated my hair regimen has become, and I’ve wondered if this process is even necessary for healthy hair.

And so, I’ve decided to try something rather radical for me: to strip down my regimen to (mostly) bare bones and see what happens. I’ll be adopting more guidelines from the Curly Girl Method. Washing with a gentle shampoo, cowashing in the middle of the week, no-heat, no silicones, and keeping my regimen as simple as possible. The goal is to reduce the amount of time I spend on my hair, and hopefully reduce the stress of caring for it.

I’ll say it now and admit that I’m a bit nervous. My wash and go’s aren’t as successful as I would like due to the different textures, curls, and shrinkage; but I am going to, at least, try it for a whole month.
This weekend, I will trim all my damaged, split ends; wash my hair really well with a sulfate shampoo to get rid of all the build-up and residue on my hair, deep condition, rinse, apply a leave-in conditioner, and gel. From then on, my regimen will be as follows:

Day 1: Hair Bonder, Wash, Deep Condition, Tea Rinse, Leave-In Conditioner, Gel
Day 2: Leave-In Conditioner, Gel (as needed)
Day 3: Leave-In Conditioner, Gel (as needed)
Day 4: Co-wash, Tea Rinse, Leave-In Conditioner, Gel (as needed)
Day 5: Leave-In Conditioner, Gel (as needed)
Day 6: Leave-In Conditioner, Gel (as needed)
Day 7: Co-wash, Tea Rinse, Leave-In Conditioner, Gel (as needed)
Day 8: Leave-In Conditioner, Gel (as needed)
Day 9: Leave-In Conditioner, Gel (as needed)
Day 10: Hair Bonder, Wash, Deep Condition, Tea Rinse, Leave-In Conditioner, Gel (repeat the entire process)

I will adjust this as needed, but it is rather simple, and I am keeping certain elements of my old regimen, like my hair bonder and my tea rinses. I will also be moisturizing my scalp as needed with a mix of rose water, glycerin, and tea tree oil. Oh! And no more oil…yeah, I am not sure how it’s going to work, but I am hoping I won’t need it to seal in moisture as much since I am wetting my hair more often. Again, I am a bit nervous, but I am ready for a big change. And who knows, I might find that this method is so much better for me than my current one.

As for products, the Curly Girl Method has a few simple rules: no shampoo, no silicones, no heat, no sulfates, no combs or brushes, and no alcohol. Of course, I’m not going to follow some of these rules. I already know that I need to wash to remove dandruff, but I will reduce how often. Second, I know I need to detangle with more than fingers, so I’ll be bringing back my handy-dandy denman brush to help detangle and clump curls. I am fine with letting go of everything else, even my silicones, which I’ve been using for years.

So, let’s see how this goes *fingers crossed.*

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